The spirit child phenomenon and the catholic side of life
“It happened within our house, our family and within our
community so I have witnessed it several times. And when that type of child
dies, they don’t use a proper thing to carry him for the burial, they will take
a rough mat and put the child there and hold it just like anything and go and
throw it away. They normally don’t take the baby to the hill alive. They will
use something like a stone, stick, or a cutlass to hit the child and kill him”
The spirit child phenomenon and the
catholic side of life
By Joseph osei
The spirit child phenomenon
started in some part of the upper east region in the northern part of Ghana, in
1975, is a culture practice whereby children born with disabilities or whose
birth coincide with a tragic incident in the family, such as the loss of a
parent.
“To witness the birth of a child
is the best opportunity to experience.”- paul cavel
The practice is common in sirigu in the
Kassena Nankana West district of the upper east region, it takes about 45
minutes to drive from Bolgatanga to Sirigu and it’s not easy. The road is
barely passable.
If the child is born with deformities, the
child is killed.
Such babies are called spirit children and are thought to be bad omen. For the community, is considered blasphemous and a curse by the gods and for that matter the unfortunate creature must return.
Such babies are called spirit children and are thought to be bad omen. For the community, is considered blasphemous and a curse by the gods and for that matter the unfortunate creature must return.
The first time I heard this
story, I could hardly believe it. I’ve always lived in a community where great
merry-making accompanies childbirth, no matter the condition of the baby or the
mother.
So at first I didn’t pay too much attention to the story.
I meet the assemblyman for the sirigu area, Azokulgu Azotipelba, and he makes a shocking admission. “Culture is like a colanut it last in the mouth of those who value it”
So at first I didn’t pay too much attention to the story.
I meet the assemblyman for the sirigu area, Azokulgu Azotipelba, and he makes a shocking admission. “Culture is like a colanut it last in the mouth of those who value it”
{They put the child on the
hill and put plenty rocks on the child,
the babies in they are not considered ‘real’ human beings by their families.
They have been cast out as evil spirits… either because they were born
physically deformed or their mothers died during childbirth. And, according to
an ancient cultural practice that survives in this area the babies must die to
save the families from evil.}
Trying to understand innocent blood being shed in the name of culture, I talk with an elder in the town, John Ayamaga. He takes time as he explains.
{when you give birth and the
mother dies instantly, the myth is that it is the baby that has killed the
mother so the child must also go so when there is no intervention, the baby is
sent to the hill there for that rituals. If the child is born with some
deformities either with some teeth or some of the hair being white, that child
is termed a spirit child and that baby is not accepted in that community. We
have a very big hill; they take them there and put a stone on that spirit child
so that it will not get up again. The family will not fail to do that because
they think if that baby has killed the mother, it can kill the rest of the
family.}
One day something happened………….
My entire body is shaking. My
mouth is wide open and I’m close to tears as I visualize the events the
Assemblyman and this Elder is describing.
A stubborn woman, Akolpoka Ateni refused to let her child to be taken
to the shrine, although the husband, Akolgo Akundikiya has given the
permission. She run away with her baby boy who was supposed to be killed
because he had one arm when he was born.
{At times the children will
grow up to 10 or 15 years and they will still manage and go and kill that
particular child. If a baby like this escape, the whole family and the entire
community will come out and go and search and kill that baby. Because it is a
culture for that community and the whole community believes that whatever the
soothsayer says is for all so they have no reason to defy it.}
Akolgbila Akundikiya now Francis Ayinbotima (meaning God loves
me) was the boy Who narrowly escaped death, Francis mother’s action changed
negative culture practice, Francis works with Afrikids in Uk and has establish
a number of works in the upper east region.
I listen carefully to the stories
of the people who have seen this horror first hand. I try to put myself in
their shoes, to understand the fear and ignorance that leads to the slaughter
of innocent children.
Francis mother with the help of the Catholic Church and Afrikids Ghana changed bad practices in a society; Francis told me how helpful the Catholic Church has been to him and his late mother who saved him from being gruesomely killed.
Francis mother with the help of the Catholic Church and Afrikids Ghana changed bad practices in a society; Francis told me how helpful the Catholic Church has been to him and his late mother who saved him from being gruesomely killed.
I believe Francis mother took inspiration from this famous quote.
“Birth is not only about making babies. Birth is about making mothers
strong, competent, capable mothers who trust themselves and know their inner
strength” – Barbara Kartz Rothman.
As I speak to Francis, I can see how gratitude he is; joy has over
filled his soul. “Time will not permit me to tell you the full story about what
my mother went through when she runs with me”
The Catholic Church is into spiritual and physical development of
the individual and we focused on societal change-The late, Most Rev. Lucas Abadamloora,
Bishops of Navrongo-Bolgatanga diocese
The Catholic
Church has helped to stop the practice whereby innocent children were killed,
After listening to
the story of Francis, which for time sake I can’t put all in black and white, I
decided to visit the sirigu, again to see the Catholic Church’s contribution.
I finally reach Sirigu.
{Some come healthy, some come sick, some almost dying.}
At the Mother of Mercy Babies Home in Sirigu a Catholic Sister, a caretaker and a community leader are in front of the fading, brown iron gate of the home to welcome us.
I look at the children and wonder what stories they would tell if they could find the words and exchange it with me.
There are 16 babies in this 26-year-old home and the youngest is only two months old.
{Some come healthy, some come sick, some almost dying.}
At the Mother of Mercy Babies Home in Sirigu a Catholic Sister, a caretaker and a community leader are in front of the fading, brown iron gate of the home to welcome us.
I look at the children and wonder what stories they would tell if they could find the words and exchange it with me.
There are 16 babies in this 26-year-old home and the youngest is only two months old.
Francis started from this home,
and as I entered and in the faces of these children I remember how Francis was
saved
The caretakers tell me the babies
in the home are not considered ‘real’ human beings by their families. They have
been cast out as evil spirits… either because they were born physically
deformed or their mothers died during childbirth. And, according to an ancient
cultural practice that survives in this area the babies must die to save the
families from evil.
In some situations there were strange events at the time of their birth. All of the children except one, are motherless.
The caretaker, Sister Innocent Depor tells me how some of the children are rescued by the Catholic Church and arrive on their doorstep.
{Because of the education, family members of the babies bring them themselves. The moment they get to know that the child can be termed a spirit child, they rush them here. So come very hefty, sick and weak.}
In some situations there were strange events at the time of their birth. All of the children except one, are motherless.
The caretaker, Sister Innocent Depor tells me how some of the children are rescued by the Catholic Church and arrive on their doorstep.
{Because of the education, family members of the babies bring them themselves. The moment they get to know that the child can be termed a spirit child, they rush them here. So come very hefty, sick and weak.}
The catholic has establish
orphanage to save these children and the local community has started taking
advantage of the facility, bringing children who are not endangered but merely
because they cannot afford to raise them.
{It was before that they don’t want the children that they always want to kill. But now with the education, they want their children but how to take care of them, very tiny, they prefer to bring the children here so that after three years when they can eat anything then they come for their child. When they bring the babies we always tell them not to come and throw the babies here like that. They should always visit them. And when they are bringing the babies, here, each child with a caretaker so that when the baby is discharged, he will have somebody he is familiar with. He will not feel like a stranger in somebody’s house.}
Poor people from the surrounding villages, outside Sirigu, have heard about the home and now bring their babies here because they are struggling to make ends meet.
One child was recently brought from Bongo, a town in the Upper East Region. Little Marilyn as they’ve named her is only a month old but motherless.
She is fortunate to have been spotted and saved by Hajia Mary Issaka, a midwife in-charge of the Anafubisi health center.
{Last week Friday we went to a community to run a clinic then we saw a pregnant woman holding this baby at the outreach point then we ask of the mother and she said the mother died at Bolga hospital. We ask what they were given and they told us that some people came to the funeral and donated some money and bought some lactogen and they are giving to the baby. So when we saw her, we knew that they cannot take care of the baby in the house so I sent this nurse to go the house and meet the community members and speak to the people about this orphanage. If they agree, we will arrange and bring the baby to Sirigu and they agreed.}
But little Marilyn is one of the more fortunate, like francis
Everywhere I go in this town people have stories about baby killing that make my blood run cold.
{there are certain things they don’t even want to mention it. There was a community like that when a woman died after delivery and they gave the baby to another woman who died when there was an outbreak of CSM. And they are saying that it is the baby that has killed both the mother and the caretaker so they brought the baby out and knock the child on the tree and it died. So some of these things they are silent}.
The services of the Sirigu home is made possible by the catholic church and donations from foreign NGO’s like Friends of African Babies (FAB), based in the region.
Mary Kaglan is from Ireland and a member of the NGO. She tells me what motivated her organization help the home.
{I think it was to see these sisters working so hard looking after so many babies thus the least we could do as we live in the area and that any help we could give them would be a bonus. The sisters of course take very good care of the babies so it is not that the case that the babies are looking after. But I think it is that people would be aware there is a home in Sirigu so people can visit and assist with the little they have}
But even with the assistance of the FAB NGO, sister Innocentia Apor and the staff here struggle to raise these children.
{It was before that they don’t want the children that they always want to kill. But now with the education, they want their children but how to take care of them, very tiny, they prefer to bring the children here so that after three years when they can eat anything then they come for their child. When they bring the babies we always tell them not to come and throw the babies here like that. They should always visit them. And when they are bringing the babies, here, each child with a caretaker so that when the baby is discharged, he will have somebody he is familiar with. He will not feel like a stranger in somebody’s house.}
Poor people from the surrounding villages, outside Sirigu, have heard about the home and now bring their babies here because they are struggling to make ends meet.
One child was recently brought from Bongo, a town in the Upper East Region. Little Marilyn as they’ve named her is only a month old but motherless.
She is fortunate to have been spotted and saved by Hajia Mary Issaka, a midwife in-charge of the Anafubisi health center.
{Last week Friday we went to a community to run a clinic then we saw a pregnant woman holding this baby at the outreach point then we ask of the mother and she said the mother died at Bolga hospital. We ask what they were given and they told us that some people came to the funeral and donated some money and bought some lactogen and they are giving to the baby. So when we saw her, we knew that they cannot take care of the baby in the house so I sent this nurse to go the house and meet the community members and speak to the people about this orphanage. If they agree, we will arrange and bring the baby to Sirigu and they agreed.}
But little Marilyn is one of the more fortunate, like francis
Everywhere I go in this town people have stories about baby killing that make my blood run cold.
{there are certain things they don’t even want to mention it. There was a community like that when a woman died after delivery and they gave the baby to another woman who died when there was an outbreak of CSM. And they are saying that it is the baby that has killed both the mother and the caretaker so they brought the baby out and knock the child on the tree and it died. So some of these things they are silent}.
The services of the Sirigu home is made possible by the catholic church and donations from foreign NGO’s like Friends of African Babies (FAB), based in the region.
Mary Kaglan is from Ireland and a member of the NGO. She tells me what motivated her organization help the home.
{I think it was to see these sisters working so hard looking after so many babies thus the least we could do as we live in the area and that any help we could give them would be a bonus. The sisters of course take very good care of the babies so it is not that the case that the babies are looking after. But I think it is that people would be aware there is a home in Sirigu so people can visit and assist with the little they have}
But even with the assistance of the FAB NGO, sister Innocentia Apor and the staff here struggle to raise these children.
TO BE CONTINUED…………. on catholic
role in stopping children been killed and full story about Francis and others
who escaped death also the medical explanation of children born with
disabilities
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